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    Quote Originally Posted by Benedikt View Post
    Hans is this reply fair?
    Yes, he ask for the phone number of the police in a specific city, I gave it to him, no problem, but if you are referring to the bottle then OP had clearly in the past told that he did look into the bottle, and to me it appears that he is doing that in this thread too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Benedikt View Post
    Hans is this reply fair?
    Is it fair what OP expose, anybody can search the internet and find this:
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    the guy seems to have a problem on his hands and needs help
    And it is not the first time, or the last, sorry, but you see, there is many ways to ask for help, some are more clumsy than others. One of the more important things to do when you need help is to stay calm, OP have an issue here.


    and i do not think it is up to us to criticize. than it would be better to keep quiet.
    If OP wants to expose his private personal problems in details on a random forum on the internet, even in a clumsy way, I see no problems to roast him, it may even be that thing he need to go future i life.
    OP had been here before, and now he is acting in the same way, he did not listen to the many advice he got.

    I would act totally different if it somebody random to me had exposed there live problems by e-mail or in my mailbox.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hans.KK View Post
    Yes, he ask for the phone number of the police in a specific city, I gave it to him, no problem, but if you are referring to the bottle then OP had clearly in the past told that he did look into the bottle, and to me it appears that he is doing that in this thread too.
    Hello Hans, not at all on the bottle but it is nice of you to judge and I rarely post here as I have no interest in Russia anymore, I simply choose this as a place of last resort after phoning the Russian Embassy, Consulate etc trying to get a phone number as i am concerned about my step daughter.

    Her natural father is into all of this dark satanic stuff and it worries me, what 6 months ago was a happy child, and was for 6 years is now one that is depressed and think vulnerable after 4 months back in Russia, make of that what you will.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alan65 View Post
    ... phoning the Russian Embassy, Consulate etc trying to get a phone number as i am concerned about my step daughter.

    Her natural father is into all of this dark satanic stuff and it worries me
    Maybe you should let the child and her mother alone, in reality you are out of there life?
    Sorry mate, but I think that is best for all of you, some times life is going it own way and it is just out of our hands to "guide" it, "the road to hell is paved with good intentions".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alan65 View Post
    Hello Hans, not at all on the bottle but it is nice of you to judge and I rarely post here as I have no interest in Russia anymore, I simply choose this as a place of last resort after phoning the Russian Embassy, Consulate etc trying to get a phone number as i am concerned about my step daughter.

    Her natural father is into all of this dark satanic stuff and it worries me, what 6 months ago was a happy child, and was for 6 years is now one that is depressed and think vulnerable after 4 months back in Russia, make of that what you will.


    Wait, it's not your daughter? Please explain why you feel you have a right to interfere in her/their lives.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Uncle Wally View Post
    Wait, it's not your daughter? Please explain why you feel you have a right to interfere in her/their lives.
    It is a combination, he like the child, and he hope to get the mother back, if the split is 50/50, 1/99, or 99/1, I do not know, but it is clear to most that his race is over and that he should just accept that his time has passed, and, we had the same issue going on past threads.

    OP had his chance with this women, for some reason it did not work, face it, and get on with life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hans.KK View Post
    It is a combination, he like the child, and he hope to get the mother back, if the split is 50/50, 1/99, or 99/1, I do not know, but it is clear to most that his race is over and that he should just accept that his time has passed, and, we had the same issue going on past threads.

    OP had his chance with this women, for some reason it did not work, face it, and get on with life.
    I would say that she had her chance with me and blew it, she is back in Russia, living in a where she does but those are our choices....you guys think Russia is paradise ...I dont

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    Quote Originally Posted by Uncle Wally View Post
    Wait, it's not your daughter? Please explain why you feel you have a right to interfere in her/their lives.
    We got married, I adopted her, her natural father abandoned her...good Russian man, never paid a kopek to her up keep, he never turned up at court to claim his right to his daughter .....must I go on about great Russian men, so i have looked after the child more than the Russian father, that is my right

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alan65 View Post
    We got married, I adopted her, her natural father abandoned her...good Russian man, never paid a kopek to her up keep, he never turned up at court to claim his right to his daughter .....must I go on about great Russian men, so i have looked after the child more than the Russian father, that is my right
    Alan maybe you should ask admin to close the post? you got your answers and from the looks of it answers and replies are turning to the worse. and will lend up most probably i na - mudfest-. who needs that? good luck to you and the girl. lets just hope all will work out for the best. for both of you.
    There is no greater treasure then pleasure....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alan65 View Post
    We got married, I adopted her, her natural father abandoned her...good Russian man, never paid a kopek to her up keep, he never turned up at court to claim his right to his daughter .....must I go on about great Russian men, so i have looked after the child more than the Russian father, that is my right
    Please don't blame it on Russia or Russian men. I know many who are good fathers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alan65 View Post
    We got married, I adopted her .... i have looked after the child more than the Russian father, that is my right
    Well you will never win anything in a Russian court room than the "right" to pay to the child, and a few days of "right" to see the child, that is all you can archive sorry.

    Be realistic, and realice that you are out of control or just a fraction of influence regarding the child, all odds are against you, Russia (the police, FSB, court, etc.) will never listen to you, especially when you live outside Russia.

    Best thing is to pay up front, react nicely if the child or the mother contact you, do not try to gain any kind of influence on the childs upbringing, what ever you do, you have lost even before the battle had started.

    And then, get on with you life.

    Whe all this is said then there is an interesting issue about what "rights" do a person have when he/she had adopted a child, especially when the relationship with the mother/father is coming to an end, in the above case I am sure that the court will say "Pay" and if lucky one will get a few days a month/year where you can be with/see the child.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alan65 View Post
    To ask this question:I

    My twelve year old daughter uses Instagram, she get messages from people that are far older than her, some are into dark magic, others I can only assume are peodophiles looking to tap up a twelve year old

    Here are some of the profiles:

    https://www.instagram.com/workoutudm/
    https://www.instagram.com/mohammed_alwan1_1/
    https://www.instagram.com/markk108/

    What should I do report to FSB, GRU etc, this is just the tip of the iceberg

    RL knows me, he sorted out lots of immigration stuff for me, I do not think i am being dramatic....thoughts


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    Alan65, Apologies for the delay but I am still on task in Asia, but some quick research has been conducted as I understand that your concerns were genuine.

    At this stage, I have seen absolutely nothing to indicate that they pose an indirect or direct threat to your daughter.

    Results are as follows:

    https://www.instagram.com/markk108/, the account is linked to a Mark Zhilnitsky.

    Upon checking on his profile, he is currently residing in Moscow; he attended MGU.
    Based on his various accounts, he works as a tarot/ritual diagnostics where he usually promotes his services online.

    A phone number was also linked to this person: +7-985-535-85-88.

    Aside from the above information, the accounts for this person are the following:

    FB: https://www.facebook.com/markk108
    Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/user/markyspex
    Twitter:https://twitter.com/markyspex1

    For the profile https://www.instagram.com/workoutudm/, the Instagram account is for the promotion of a sports/gym facility named Workout UDM located in Izhevsk; the facility is managed by Nikita Izhboldin, a personal trainer.

    2 Facebook weblinks were found under his name:
    -http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=100007540601322
    -http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=100005398336595 (under the name of Никита Ижболдин)

    Никита Ижболдин is currently residing in Izhevsk having finished his degree in Izhevsk State Technical University in 2016. Other information found on this link is the facility's phone number +89090592568 and another account on VK, https://vk.com/workout_izhevsk.

    As for https://www.instagram.com/mohammed_alwan1_1/ , this account user is more elusive and travels between Iraq and Yemen, as well as some other Middle Eastern countries, but there is no current indication that he has entered the RF or intends to in the near future.

    I hope that the above settles some of your anxieties?
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    Quote Originally Posted by americaninmoscow View Post
    Earlier this year, I happen to have found myself around a group of teenage girls aged 12-14. They all came from super rich families, as in they would fly to london over the weekend to go shopping or to their place in dubai cuz they needed to get some sun. They were all pretty cute too.

    One had a tatoo that she apparently got with her mom. And it was in some intimate area, as everyone seemed to know about it, but she felt uncomfortable showing it off in front of everyone. A few of the girls were already drinking and were renting apts thru airbnb and throwing parties and one was trying to take drugs, but the only thing she could get were pills from the apteka. They all had insta and were pretty unhappy with me when i wouldnt friend them...

    I have a few more stories like this..



    The point is its a brave new world out there. The kids dont have the same sense of privacy or boundries that many of us olds prob grew up with.
    "us olds," I love the new phrase....but you gotta include mid-30s peeps too, we only had cell phones available when we entered college, and are people in their mid-30s really "old"!!?? :O

    But I definitely agree with you more than Bendict; sorry Alan but with some things you gotta put your foot down as a parent, even if we use the most "humane" and "autonomous" parenting methods. Ya gotta cut the Instagram if shady followers (stalkers) have already emerged.

    And BTW screen time in general should he severely limited if not eliminated. For anyone interested I saw a great presentation on this the other day, which I can share.
    I am fascinated by Russia, this country with frigid weather, hard souls, and hot girls!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TolkoRaz View Post
    Alan65, Apologies for the delay but I am still on task in Asia, but some quick research has been conducted as I understand that your concerns were genuine.

    At this stage, I have seen absolutely nothing to indicate that they pose an indirect or direct threat to your daughter.

    Results are as follows:

    https://www.instagram.com/markk108/, the account is linked to a Mark Zhilnitsky.

    Upon checking on his profile, he is currently residing in Moscow; he attended MGU.
    Based on his various accounts, he works as a tarot/ritual diagnostics where he usually promotes his services online.

    A phone number was also linked to this person: +7-985-535-85-88.

    Aside from the above information, the accounts for this person are the following:

    FB: https://www.facebook.com/markk108
    Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/user/markyspex
    Twitter:https://twitter.com/markyspex1

    For the profile https://www.instagram.com/workoutudm/, the Instagram account is for the promotion of a sports/gym facility named Workout UDM located in Izhevsk; the facility is managed by Nikita Izhboldin, a personal trainer.

    2 Facebook weblinks were found under his name:
    -http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=100007540601322
    -http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=100005398336595 (under the name of Никита Ижболдин)

    Никита Ижболдин is currently residing in Izhevsk having finished his degree in Izhevsk State Technical University in 2016. Other information found on this link is the facility's phone number +89090592568 and another account on VK, https://vk.com/workout_izhevsk.

    As for https://www.instagram.com/mohammed_alwan1_1/ , this account user is more elusive and travels between Iraq and Yemen, as well as some other Middle Eastern countries, but there is no current indication that he has entered the RF or intends to in the near future.

    I hope that the above settles some of your anxieties?
    Thanks so much Tolko, this thread is not about gaining custody etc but the protection of a child, Ben posted something today about an Austrian child that got murdered after conversations online...this thread is not about score settling, Russian women etc what they think the want, what I think i believe in with rights....THIS IS ABOUT THE PROTECTION OF A 12 YEAR OLD GIRL....I think that the general consensus is that she must be protected, perhaps I have opened a can of worms...but a can of worms that needed opening....not just for Russian children but for children all over the world.

    Thanks so much and lets see where this goes. I do not think that a twenty something that is into Taro, has travelled to Thailand should be friends with a 12 year old, neither do I think that someone that has a gym and is a personal trainer should be friends with a 12 year old...as for the guys in the middle east we should make our own decisions.

    I think that the Russian guys are okay but need a bit of self censorship, just as I would if a twelve year old girl contacted me on facebook etc.

    Thank you all so much for your help and lets hope that this does not end up like Bens case in Austria.

    Best Regards

    Alan65

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    Quote Originally Posted by nicklcool View Post
    "us olds," I love the new phrase....but you gotta include mid-30s peeps too, we only had cell phones available when we entered college, and are people in their mid-30s really "old"!!?? :O

    But I definitely agree with you more than Bendict; sorry Alan but with some things you gotta put your foot down as a parent, even if we use the most "humane" and "autonomous" parenting methods. Ya gotta cut the Instagram if shady followers (stalkers) have already emerged.

    And BTW screen time in general should he severely limited if not eliminated. For anyone interested I saw a great presentation on this the other day, which I can share.


    It would help if Alan was closer that 1000 miles away and the natural father of this girl to "put his foot down. I think the mother could legally stop his involvement in her daughters life if she really thought it not in her best interest or if she had the money and time. Maybe it's time for Alan to move on?
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