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Miracle77777
27-01-2008, 00:34
What is the best age difference between husband a wife on your opinion??
Please - not put here quotes, like - "Love could bear anything...or it is not a main thing...."
Because, this is really a question, which come up sometimes....And I am not speaking about dating or one-night-stands....
Will be pleased to know your opinions about this.....
:sunny: :rules:

AndreyS
27-01-2008, 00:38
What is the best age difference between husband a wife on your opinion??
Please - not put here quotes, like - "Love could bear anything...or it is not a main thing...."
Because, this is really a question, which come up sometimes....And I am not speaking about dating or one-night-stands....
Will be pleased to know your opinions about this.....
:sunny: :rules:
I think within 10 years.

pjw
27-01-2008, 00:51
I think within 10 years.

This is pretty broad. But I agree. Not too much older or younger I guess. My girlfriends are progressively getting younger than me.
First one, 11 years older than me,
2nd one 4 years older than me,
3rd one (exwife) 6 years older than me,
last exgirlfriend was 3 years younger than me.

All my bad, difficult, strange and weird, torturing, trying and terrible relationships have one thing in common. me

It's a good idea for a thread Miracle. And I like your new signature.:D

Bels
27-01-2008, 00:53
What is the best age difference between husband a wife on your opinion??
Please - not put here quotes, like - "Love could bear anything...or it is not a main thing...."
Because, this is really a question, which come up sometimes....And I am not speaking about dating or one-night-stands....
Will be pleased to know your opinions about this.....
:sunny: :rules:

I'm sorry I can't find one. :} Therefore no vote. Get the youngest of what you desire andwhat you can get . Okay real life is not as simple as that , but it's a first thought.

I honestly think the age gap is between 10-15 years from men to women. I have seen bigger gaps on the internet, but I think this is average and normal.

Miracle77777
27-01-2008, 01:09
Thanks to everyone for responds - really appreciate....especially interesting for me, cause these were male's opinions ^^
Wait some women's too - to see if we are thinking the same :rolleyes:

Albertina
27-01-2008, 01:10
Men should be 10-20 year older.
But for me, 10 year younger haha

Miracle77777
27-01-2008, 01:14
This is pretty broad. But I agree. Not too much older or younger I guess. My girlfriends are progressively getting younger than me.
First one, 11 years older than me,
2nd one 4 years older than me,
3rd one (exwife) 6 years older than me,
last exgirlfriend was 3 years younger than me.

All my bad, difficult, strange and weird, torturing, trying and terrible relationships have one thing in common. me

Hi, Pete ^^
Do not be so self-criticizing :yikes:
You just had not meet a right person....maybe you should change your age's area and looking for more young or more old??
Joking....:D


It's a good idea for a thread Miracle. And I like your new signature.:D

Thanks - you are very attentive :hooray: Do like some precise quotes ^^
Do you agree with this one??

Miracle77777
27-01-2008, 01:18
Agree with Bels and Alb - 10-15 years is a good age difference.....
Of course Husband should be older....Feel more secure and comfortly with him in that case.....
But, again - I understand that all is not that Black and White and there are a lot of nuanses....:eh:
Let's see other comments....:sunny:

Bels
27-01-2008, 01:19
It would be nice to see if women think younger or older men. My guess is it's more complicated than that, But a 10 year difference in men being older should be okay,:bedtime:

SalTheReturn
27-01-2008, 01:25
This is pretty broad. But I agree. Not too much older or younger I guess. My girlfriends are progressively getting younger than me.
First one, 11 years older than me,
2nd one 4 years older than me,
3rd one (exwife) 6 years older than me,
last exgirlfriend was 3 years younger than me.

All my bad, difficult, strange and weird, torturing, trying and terrible relationships have one thing in common. me

It's a good idea for a thread Miracle. And I like your new signature.:D

dude you seemed to have collected quite a few of them! good man, good

personally not thinking of marriage now but as concern girlfriends i like them somewhat younger 5-6yrs

Miracle how comes you always think of this sort of stuff? i mean nothing bad but sometimes it would be great hearing you to discuss other stuff

SalTheReturn
27-01-2008, 01:30
It would be nice to see if women think younger or older men. My guess is it's more complicated than that, But a 10 year difference in men being older should be okay,:bedtime:

depends on age, now 28 ok girlfriend 22/23

but if i was 22/23 not ok girlfriend 17/18

above all in italy where lots of people would, at the same time, envy those hanging out with younger girls and classing them as loser

in this i loved russia a lot where i was once told "your same age not interesting, must be much younger or much older". honestly it proved the right thing.

PS. anyway there is sht making me doubtful a lot...i often meet girls much younger than me (ie.20) but feel completely ok talking to them and dont feel like there is much difference. of course girl around 20are already almost-women, go to university and all the like. they have a brain i mean.

pjw
27-01-2008, 03:56
Hi, Pete ^^
Do not be so self-criticizing :yikes:
You just had not meet a right person....maybe you should change your age's area and looking for more young or more old??
Joking....:D



Thanks - you are very attentive :hooray: Do like some precise quotes ^^
Do you agree with this one??

I like this thread Miracle. It's cool to focus on this kinda stuff, pick at it like chicken bones and maybe get down to some kinda truth, although the journey there is the aim.

Miracle, I'm not sure if I like this signature necessarily better than the other one. The other one was funnier I guess. It made me smile about a woman learning to talk ha ha but never getting it when not to talk ha ha ha ha ha. Somehow it showed me that you could laugh at yourself a bit, I don't know, it was ironic and I liked it. This one with a twist, yeah, but I can't say I believe it personally. Men can live without woman, just as woman without men. We don't need eachother. I don't think anybody necessarily needs a partner or counterbalance or opposite. Just some kinda soulmate would be radical! :D :D

J.D.
27-01-2008, 17:15
A formula that I've heard is
the woman's age should be (1/2 + 7) of the mans age.

Not sure if that is his mental or physical age though.

Natkin
27-01-2008, 18:32
I think it depends on the age of a woman. She in 20s - +10 years, let him be a bit settled with a job and still wanting to enjoy life - hence the clubs she wants him to take her. She is in 30s -+5 years, same interests, same gyms, same career runs. She is in 40s - the agemate. She is after 45 - a 10 years younger, to keep her in shape. She`s after 50 - a toyboy.

Natkin
27-01-2008, 18:37
Oh, sorry, forgot - she`s under 20 - a sugar daddy!!!

Miracle77777
27-01-2008, 18:41
dude you seemed to have collected quite a few of them! good man, good

personally not thinking of marriage now but as concern girlfriends i like them somewhat younger 5-6yrs

Miracle how comes you always think of this sort of stuff? i mean nothing bad but sometimes it would be great hearing you to discuss other stuff

My little Sal is returning to his "so smart posts" :hooray:
:suspect: but if you do not find this thread worthy - logically u could just not posting here.....
however...I see, this topic is quite interesting for u, so.......don't fool me....^-*

PS: How do you think.....should I discuss with u my next threads before posting?? ;)

Take care \o/

Miracle77777
27-01-2008, 18:47
depends on age, now 28 ok girlfriend 22/23

but if i was 22/23 not ok girlfriend 17/18.

Wise.....and I agree with you here....:iagree:


above all in italy where lots of people would, at the same time, envy those hanging out with younger girls and classing them as loser

PS. anyway there is sht making me doubtful a lot...i often meet girls much younger than me (ie.20) but feel completely ok talking to them and dont feel like there is much difference. of course girl around 20are already almost-women, go to university and all the like. they have a brain i mean.

:suspect: ....eeh.......maybe the reason not in that only....;) ?? :confused: ^-*

Miracle77777
27-01-2008, 18:50
I think it depends on the age of a woman. She in 20s - +10 years, let him be a bit settled with a job and still wanting to enjoy life - hence the clubs she wants him to take her. She is in 30s -+5 years, same interests, same gyms, same career runs. She is in 40s - the agemate. She is after 45 - a 10 years younger, to keep her in shape. She`s after 50 - a toyboy.

:applause: :applause: :applause:

SalTheReturn
27-01-2008, 19:04
I think it depends on the age of a woman. She in 20s - +10 years, let him be a bit settled with a job and still wanting to enjoy life - hence the clubs she wants him to take her. She is in 30s -+5 years, same interests, same gyms, same career runs. She is in 40s - the agemate. She is after 45 - a 10 years younger, to keep her in shape. She`s after 50 - a toyboy.

are they really guys going to the same gym with their girlfriend and viceversa? oh my god thats more boring even than my sister and his boyfriend lifestyle...:bong:

and just noticed...are people so dumb to go to clubs with their girlfriends? i do not mean guys going there on their own are intended do anything wrond, but for gods sake cannot she go with her mates and i go with mine?:doh:

SalTheReturn
27-01-2008, 19:08
My little Sal is returning to his "so smart posts" :hooray:
:suspect: but if you do not find this thread worthy - logically u could just not posting here.....
however...I see, this topic is quite interesting for u, so.......don't fool me....^-*

PS: How do you think.....should I discuss with u my next threads before posting?? ;)

Take care \o/

Miracle i didnt say thread not interesting, just wonder why all your threads concern the issue of relation,maybe french guy...:-)

SalTheReturn
27-01-2008, 19:11
Oh, sorry, forgot - she`s under 20 - a sugar daddy!!!

natkin you are basing everything on russian environment

cant a guy have a much younger girl without being a sugar daddy?

not all girls are after money and i often see older guys in good shape (40/50yo) drawing the attention of younger girls

Miracle77777
29-01-2008, 01:14
Just had found a good quote:
"Age does not protect you from Love....but Love, to some extent, protects you from Age.."
Thinking about it.......:question:

pjw
29-01-2008, 02:52
A formula that I've heard is
the woman's age should be (1/2 + 7) of the mans age.

Not sure if that is his mental or physical age though.

Maybe a US man of 144 years has a mental age of, hang on a second um divided by 12 is approximately yeah 12. Happy with that? I would be saying, God what´s f.ucking wrong here?

Korotky Gennady
29-01-2008, 03:40
I think within 10 years.

Andrey, i think that it depends on love between them... ain't ? Becoz I am sure that there is no sense in marriage if there is no love in it.

Miracle77777
01-02-2008, 21:49
Andrey, i think that it depends on love between them... ain't ? Becoz I am sure that there is no sense in marriage if there is no love in it.

:applause: :applause:
Bravo, Gena.....could I use your quote in the future as my signature? ;)
:11158:

TGP
01-02-2008, 22:24
I think much depends on how young a person is in his/her heart. Some people just feel better emotionally, have more interests etc with people who are younger or older. It may sound strange, but I know many cases like that.

And yes, KG, you are absolutely right! If there is love, age difference is nothing.

MissAnnElk
01-02-2008, 22:49
I'm 4 years older than my husband. It's okay . . . sometimes there are popular culture references he doesn't get because he was slightly behind me. But they aren't that important.

I always heard that women should marry older men because it takes boys longer to mature than girls . . . might be something to that? On the other hand, having watched a few December/May relationships, it does get challenging when the older one suddenly gets OLD. It's hard.

Miracle77777
01-02-2008, 22:57
I think much depends on how young a person is in his/her heart. Some people just feel better emotionally, have more interests etc with people who are younger or older. It may sound strange, but I know many cases like that.

And yes, KG, you are absolutely right! If there is love, age difference is nothing.

...I think much depends on how young a person is in his/her heart. ..
I think this is really a point..... And that's why there is nothing weird...or almost nothing.:rolleyes: when female dating older 10-15-20 years male, or in opposite, male is going out with older woman.....
The main thing - how old do you feel in your Soul?? ;)

AstraTeaching
02-02-2008, 09:30
I've always preferred younger men, and always will do.
They are much more fun to be with than my contemporaries or (yuck!) older men.
Although, to be fair, I shoud add that the best sex I've ever had was with the 58 y.o. guy (and I was 21 at the moment:)

SalTheReturn
02-02-2008, 11:27
I've always preferred younger men, and always will do.
They are much more fun to be with than my contemporaries or (yuck!) older men.
Although, to be fair, I shoud add that the best sex I've ever had was with the 58 y.o. guy (and I was 21 at the moment:)

probably the 58yo think the same!

May god bless girls like you. hat off.

Miracle77777
03-02-2008, 23:51
probably the 58yo think the same!

May god bless girls like you. hat off.

Have no doubts ;)

Miracle77777
03-02-2008, 23:54
I've always preferred younger men, and always will do.
They are much more fun to be with than my contemporaries or (yuck!) older men.
Although, to be fair, I shoud add that the best sex I've ever had was with the 58 y.o. guy (and I was 21 at the moment:)

Thanks, Astra for sincerety....Appreciate...
Could add, that in my situation it was almost the same....but the guy was 45....and I was 20...:D
:trampoline:

agvares
27-05-2008, 14:47
anyway, marriage sucks hardly

AndreyS
27-05-2008, 15:56
Andrey, i think that it depends on love between them... ain't ? Becoz I am sure that there is no sense in marriage if there is no love in it.

Do you believe in love between those having a 30-years age gap? - that's the point.
Or better still between 80 y.o. greybeard and 23 y.o. girl?

Gypsy
27-05-2008, 17:00
anyway, marriage sucks hardly

What does this mean?

AndreyS
27-05-2008, 17:04
What does this mean?

I am in doubt as well.

vladimir_seroff
27-05-2008, 18:09
What is wrong with letting those who are getting married decide what makes sense to them in their marriage? Unless, of course, we know better, which most often is the case. Love may not be what they are looking for in their marriage.

I looked up the definition of marriage - marriage - Definition from the Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/marriage) :10189:It is very revealing :-)


Andrey, i think that it depends on love between them... ain't ? Becoz I am sure that there is no sense in marriage if there is no love in it.

Umutt65
27-05-2008, 23:14
The age is a bit difficult topic to discuss. There is a chemistry, there is a love and there is always should be a control.

5-15 yrs up for me.

kapione
13-06-2008, 07:13
age is just a number ,my wife is 19.5 years younger than me, we both are humans, we have the normal troubles , but we know that we love each other .

the key is talking,,, and listening.... but most important understanding the differences we have.

Men are from Mars,women are from Venus, we process everything differently,age differences,cultural and national differences can intrude on your harmony if you do not take the time to talk,listen and understand each other.... no 2 people get along 100% of the time,thats a fairytale......
but we 2 are happy

Nice post Miracle77777

as with one of the other posters here on this thread, when I was younger ,I was with ladies 4 to 5 years older than me... than as they got older and stopped caring about themselves,me and their appearance, I dated ladies closer to my age, then it progressed to ladies younger than me .
whenI broke up with my ex in 2006 ,I was 47,I was being persued and dated lovely ladies down to 19, but I settled on my now wife she is as I mentioned 19.5 years younger , a very mellow and mild lady...caring and loving
this is what matters

Miracle77777
14-06-2008, 01:41
Do you believe in love between those having a 30-years age gap? - that's the point.
Or better still between 80 y.o. greybeard and 23 y.o. girl?

And you don't????????

Sometimes it is better to spend time with mature and smart, older than you......than to be with youngish tail, who doesn't know yet what he wants from life and asking you to pay in restaurants.....;)

AndreyS
14-06-2008, 02:12
And you don't????????

Sometimes it is better to spend time with mature and smart, older than you......than to be with youngish tail, who doesn't know yet what he wants from life and asking you to pay in restaurants.....;)

You are right.

Mimosa
29-06-2008, 23:50
If I'm 25 years, hm, what is the best his age for me?)) Probably not less than 18 and not elder than 60_)))

Bels
29-06-2008, 23:55
If I'm 25 years, hm, what is the best his age for me?)) Probably not less than 18 and not elder than 60_)))

Well! If we go by Russian standards and national statistics for men, you are already middl aged :yuk:
And I am already dead :(

Mimosa
30-06-2008, 00:11
O, come on) Russians say that statstics never tell the truth, plus the age is nothing, only the soul is important:7534:

Bels
30-06-2008, 00:43
Thanks, you make me feel so much better, especially when I'm still alive and still feel as young as my two year old son :) Wife hates me talking this way about statistics. As apparently I have a responsibility to be there when my son grows. And yes I agree with that.

Mirka
30-06-2008, 08:59
And you don't????????

Sometimes it is better to spend time with mature and smart, older than you......than to be with youngish tail, who doesn't know yet what he wants from life and asking you to pay in restaurants.....;)

I am affraid Miracle that the age doesn't necessary make poeple know what they want :( Yes there is bigger chance that they already found out but I know about the "cases" when they still don't know and are over 40 :)

Charodeyka
30-06-2008, 09:12
I think he must be older.... But how much it depends on the persone totally. I had some bfs who was 10-12 years elder but now, for example, my bf elder 3 years only, but I feel me very comfortable. I just prefer smart guyes who knows what they want from life, who are free of meaning people around or stupid standards... But some people at 34-35 are still like children and need mummy only, not gf. They are not grown-up and can't be strong in making desidions. And some comes very serious and grown-up at 25-28. All is individual.. As for me - I need a lot of trust, no stupid complexes, not much self-confidence and smart, smart,smart persone who knows what he wants from this life for sure, who are not just live to live.

SalTheReturn
30-06-2008, 10:51
Thanks, Astra for sincerety....Appreciate...
Could add, that in my situation it was almost the same....but the guy was 45....and I was 20...:D
:trampoline:

May God bless girls like you too, finding a sexual partners who is 25yo younger is difficult.

Still wonder though, how you do not you feel ashamed walking with someone 25yo younger. Wait I know why it is that possible, in messed up Russia it can even be normal!!!

SalTheReturn
30-06-2008, 10:55
age is just a number ,my wife is 19.5 years younger than me, we both are humans, we have the normal troubles , but we know that we love each other .

the key is talking,,, and listening.... but most important understanding the differences we have.

Men are from Mars,women are from Venus, we process everything differently,age differences,cultural and national differences can intrude on your harmony if you do not take the time to talk,listen and understand each other.... no 2 people get along 100% of the time,thats a fairytale......
but we 2 are happy

Nice post Miracle77777

as with one of the other posters here on this thread, when I was younger ,I was with ladies 4 to 5 years older than me... than as they got older and stopped caring about themselves,me and their appearance, I dated ladies closer to my age, then it progressed to ladies younger than me .
whenI broke up with my ex in 2006 ,I was 47,I was being persued and dated lovely ladies down to 19, but I settled on my now wife she is as I mentioned 19.5 years younger , a very mellow and mild lady...caring and loving
this is what matters

I am sorry Kapione but if you dated girls 19yo you were just sick

also no doubts in your home country you would not have found a wife 19.5yrs younger unless you were Rockfeller

this show that despite i am the one who is slandered, at least i was 26 when in Russia and just having fun. There are on the other hand lots of foreigners who constantly come to grab younger girls and marry them. Whilst my behaviour is socially understandable (and condamned by the community just for the sake of condamning it), the other is sign of deviancy.

SalTheReturn
30-06-2008, 10:56
And you don't????????

Sometimes it is better to spend time with mature and smart, older than you......than to be with youngish tail, who doesn't know yet what he wants from life and asking you to pay in restaurants.....;)

good point Miracle, you are surely a woman of high principles :bedtime:

SalTheReturn
30-06-2008, 11:01
I am affraid Miracle that the age doesn't necessary make poeple know what they want :( Yes there is bigger chance that they already found out but I know about the "cases" when they still don't know and are over 40 :)

it is not just that the sickness

the sickness is also that she looks for a man who knows what he wants and this is because she knows nothing about she wants.

at 20yo she thought it was cool to date a 45yo man, now she think it is cool to date foreigners...

one other thing which keep amazing is why women pretend the man knows what he wants whilst the women is free to have sick brain

for me it equals to girls telling "i have to feel safe when with a man, he must make me feel safe"...what the hell that mean? are not you for gods sake old enough to successfully cope with the difficulties of life by yourself? I am not your dad, I am your boyfriend.

MELODY
01-07-2008, 09:46
it is not just that the sickness

the sickness is also that she looks for a man who knows what he wants and this is because she knows nothing about she wants.

at 20yo she thought it was cool to date a 45yo man, now she think it is cool to date foreigners...

one other thing which keep amazing is why women pretend the man knows what he wants whilst the women is free to have sick brain

for me it equals to girls telling "i have to feel safe when with a man, he must make me feel safe"...what the hell that mean? are not you for gods sake old enough to successfully cope with the difficulties of life by yourself? I am not your dad, I am your boyfriend.

Ciao,tesoro,
in europe i only date guys MUCH YOUNGER THAN I AM. italy made me a cougar! so, if you are not over 27, when i am back in milan, we'll go for aperitivo and have fun! :vampire:
COUGAR MELODY, LADRONA DELLA CULLA

ultimotattie
01-07-2008, 15:50
Quiet, oft forsaken souls like myself have to contend with taking what we can get, whether it's 18 or 48. :p

Miracle77777
02-07-2008, 16:47
O, come on) Russians say that statstics never tell the truth, plus the age is nothing, only the soul is important:7534:

Very true, Mimosa)))
Let's think how to convince everybody in this:)

Miracle77777
02-07-2008, 16:50
I am affraid Miracle that the age doesn't necessary make poeple know what they want :( Yes there is bigger chance that they already found out but I know about the "cases" when they still don't know and are over 40 :)

Agree with you)))
I also know such persons......but luckily, almost all of my friends who are over 40 - really mature and succesful, not just in terms of work, but in sense of Life spirit....which is even more important:)

Miracle77777
02-07-2008, 16:56
Ciao,tesoro,
in europe i only date guys MUCH YOUNGER THAN I AM. italy made me a cougar! so, if you are not over 27, when i am back in milan, we'll go for aperitivo and have fun! :vampire:
COUGAR MELODY, LADRONA DELLA CULLA

I really think, that he is younger than 18.....at least in compariness with middle Russian student in intellectual sense-he is failing:)

MELODY
03-07-2008, 11:21
I really think, that he is younger than 18.....at least in compariness with middle Russian student in intellectual sense-he is failing:)


great! then he is young enough for training! (i'm a very good teacher.)

happie
03-07-2008, 17:07
There is a theory that the most harmonious relationships come out of the age difference of 4, 8, 16 and 32 years, regardless who's older, a man or a woman. Besides, the bigger is the difference the more harmony can be achieved between the two.

Billie Bob
05-07-2008, 23:23
I personally dont believe that age plays a vital importance in a relationship. I was married for many years to a girl older than me. agreed, at the end it didnt work out, but it had nothing to do with the age.

I have since dated a few females, and from what i see, age is not important, tho' it might throw some thoughts into the relationship, age doesnt really matter...

but with in reason, say 5-15 yrs age difference is fine...:11629:

Albertina
05-07-2008, 23:33
Would 16 years difference make a difference?!

Billie Bob
06-07-2008, 00:04
no.... or 17 or more...

there has to be love and caring, understanding in between the two...
the chemical composition helps too :tv:

Albertina
06-07-2008, 00:11
nah, that just won't last unless someone has ulteriour motives. How could you even begin to understand each other with 2 decades of age difference. :bomb:

Billie Bob
06-07-2008, 00:24
I personally know two such couples. 1 couple that are happily married back in new york (non russian). the other couple here in moscow...

philip kirkorov to alla pugachova, tho' it didnt last understood, but they still have it for each other even after the divorce.

luciano pavoroti to his wife, ok, understood too, these are celebrities, and theres money involved too (I would presume so)...

AngryKsen
15-09-2008, 00:15
I think it entirely depends on what age the age difference is being applied to. A 15 year difference between a 20 year old and a 35 year old is ENORMOUS. But between a 30 year old and a 45 year old? Barely noticeable.

Adamodeus
11-11-2008, 13:55
I think it entirely depends on what age the age difference is being applied to. A 15 year difference between a 20 year old and a 35 year old is ENORMOUS. But between a 30 year old and a 45 year old? Barely noticeable.
Well said! I used to deny it vehemently when I was 20, but I'm older and wiser now. :D

tonyshi45
13-11-2008, 08:55
Everyone is different , I have had a wife same age , it was good we were married 14 years , had a russian wife 8 years younger , was ok , now have a russian lady 15 years younger , and all relationships have been good ,
Just depends on both people , I have a American friend living in Ukrain , he is middle 50s and she middle 20s , they have been together almost a year and they are happy , So maybe what matters is if your both happy ,

Bels
26-11-2008, 22:16
Everyone to their own decisions, that's what I say. In Russia it appears easier to have with confidence all age groups older or younger. They appear more liberal in mind than the rest of the world. Being older in Russia I find no problem in finding women who have interest in any age group. Even being in Britain it's the same, but ther is a tendancy to be more suspicious of the women's motives. Sorry not so much here. And I don't know why, and it's not just about money here in Russia.

Miracle77777
30-11-2008, 10:16
Well said! I used to deny it vehemently when I was 20, but I'm older and wiser now. :D

Wisdom never works out in Love:)....unfortunately or luckily on your choice.....:p

Miracle77777
30-11-2008, 10:20
Everyone is different , I have had a wife same age , it was good we were married 14 years , had a russian wife 8 years younger , was ok , now have a russian lady 15 years younger , and all relationships have been good ,
Just depends on both people , I have a American friend living in Ukrain , he is middle 50s and she middle 20s , they have been together almost a year and they are happy , So maybe what matters is if your both happy ,

I think in the start all this relationships with or without age difference are really good, happy and perspective)))

Otherwise they would never start it;)

The most important is too keep this for a long time...and here starts problem....We need to develop together....then success is garanteed...

King Technoterri
01-12-2008, 10:55
As this is my reality, I have to say 27 years age difference, that is my wife - :queen: is 27 years younger than me - we met on ICQ 2005. In 2006 we in the UK and a month later in Russia. I proposed to her up a mountain in Pyatigorsk - 07.07.07 we married. In May this year I got my three years residency, her nick name is Queen which might have influenced my judgement, cheers :cheerleader: 'nuff said.

Swordfish90293
09-12-2008, 00:00
A man is only as old as the woman he feels.
--Groucho Marx

RQRose
15-12-2008, 10:21
10 -20 years younger.

There is empirical psychological evidence that Older men can handle a younger woman's emotional immaturity better than younger men. And I am in my early 20s, so I am not speaking from age bias.

Green Tea
15-12-2008, 11:38
No more than 10 years. It starts to look letcherous after that, and people might think she is your daughter.

Pinsleepe
15-12-2008, 20:17
I wouldn't mind getting some sexual experiences with someone who is 10-20 years older, but when it comes to marriage, I would prefer it to be someone who is not more than 10 years older, otherwise I would be afraid to always be treated like an immature child... Have observed examples and it's not fun.

Swordfish90293
15-12-2008, 22:56
There's truth in this...an older guy, if his head is on straight, can handle the emotional makeup of a
younger person better than a younger male simply by virtue of the fact that he's been through this before. Also, an older guy is likely to weed out the less mature younger ladies who are less stable, in favor of those who are more of an emotional asset. This is now happened to me. An older male, late bloomer, chronic adolescent, finally wants to start a family, looking for a younger woman of child bearing age who will still be young enough enjoy the cache and care for the kids when I'm gone...


Rose;472895]10 -20 years younger.
There is empirical psychological evidence that Older men can handle a younger woman's emotional immaturity better than younger men. And I am in my early 20s, so I am not speaking from age bias.[/QUOTE]

Qdos
17-12-2008, 17:55
I wouldn't mind getting some sexual experiences with someone who is 10-20 years older......

* I wouldn't mind either, and sod their age completely! * ;)

But seriously, my partner's 14 years my junior, and we often get spoken to in the fashion where the third party assumes that I am her father!!!

She looks young for her age, and I look older than mine; hence the difference appears even more exaggerated than actual number of years...

It can be hilarious when we have to correct someone about the relationship between us!

Anastasia Malysheva
18-12-2008, 14:24
Hello! as for me it doesn't matter how old is the Partner. Because of people gained different experience in their life.
Sometimes I think that it's better to be in touch with people who older than me, because of they gained a lot of things, experience, they are interesting speakers etc. But sometimes I believe that people, who are younger than me, are the kindest, naivest and better, as they haven't preconceptions.:question:

pjw
18-12-2008, 16:49
I wouldn't mind getting some sexual experiences with someone who is 10-20 years older, but when it comes to marriage, I would prefer it to be someone who is not more than 10 years older, otherwise I would be afraid to always be treated like an immature child... Have observed examples and it's not fun.


Czesc Pinsleepe :) Quite a nice little post. Yes I think I know what you mean. How old are you actually?

Miracle77777
19-12-2008, 02:07
As this is my reality, I have to say 27 years age difference, that is my wife - :queen: is 27 years younger than me - we met on ICQ 2005. In 2006 we in the UK and a month later in Russia. I proposed to her up a mountain in Pyatigorsk - 07.07.07 we married. In May this year I got my three years residency, her nick name is Queen which might have influenced my judgement, cheers :cheerleader: 'nuff said.

Off the thread - are you visiting Pyatigorsk since that time to spend your anniversary?
I am from there, by the way:D

Miracle77777
19-12-2008, 02:08
10 -20 years younger.

There is empirical psychological evidence that Older men can handle a younger woman's emotional immaturity better than younger men. And I am in my early 20s, so I am not speaking from age bias.

And younger men could better satisfy women in their maturity?
:p
:inlove:

Miracle77777
19-12-2008, 02:09
No more than 10 years. It starts to look letcherous after that, and people might think she is your daughter.

Better than think, that she is a bitch:p
:nono:

pjw
19-12-2008, 02:14
Better than think, that she is a bitch:p
:nono:

Shocked and stunned by your language sis. This the way they speak in Zürich? :SwoonLoveSmiley:

Miracle77777
19-12-2008, 02:22
Shocked and stunned by your language sis. This the way they speak in Zürich? :SwoonLoveSmiley:

:rant:
Ehh...Sorry, Bro...I had to write b*tch? ...
anyway...didn't want to sounds rude....

:D

silmaril
02-01-2009, 14:23
This article is about the age disparity in sexual relationships and explain to the "half-your-age-plus-seven" rule.

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Qdos
02-01-2009, 18:30
This article is about the age disparity in sexual relationships and explain to the "half-your-age-plus-seven" rule.

So now I need a chart and a formula to tell me what I know to be OK really is OK, but when I met my OH five years ago I would have fallen foul of the half-my-age-plus-seven-years theory...

Therefore it's sheer poppycock... :suspect:

silmaril
03-01-2009, 23:17
haha :) you're right. Nobody needs to any chart about relationships. That's the way i posted it, also these poll so foolish more then article.

OlgaL
17-03-2009, 23:52
Men should be older on 5-10 years

alma
11-05-2009, 19:32
my husband is 23 years older than me. I like it that way.:mml: